This session deeply resonated with me because my work—as an educator, researcher, and advocate for women’s rights—has always been rooted in listening to communities whose voices are often marginalized or silenced. Coming from Afghanistan, I have seen firsthand how the absence of genuine listening and trust-building from those in power can lead to policies and practices that ignore the urgent needs of women and girls, especially in education.
“Showing up” for me means being present not only physically but also emotionally and intellectually—whether I am mentoring Afghan girls online, collaborating with Canadian communities, or leading peaceful advocacy rallies. It means entering the space with humility, without assuming I already know the solutions, and making sure those I aim to serve feel ownership over the process.
A commitment to dignity in my work translates into creating safe, respectful environments for women and girls to share their stories and shape the initiatives meant for them. It also means recognizing their strengths, not just their struggles, and ensuring that education, resources, and opportunities are offered in ways that honor their agency and aspirations.
Facing outward requires me to constantly connect my academic research in renewable energy and sustainability to the real-life needs of communities, such as improving access to clean water, energy, and education. It reminds me that my efforts must not just advance my own career goals but serve as a bridge between knowledge and lived realities.
I have witnessed moments when my community—both in Afghanistan and among Afghan diaspora women—was not listened to. Too often, decisions were made without our input, resulting in solutions that did not match our needs. In those situations, active listening would have meant sitting with the community, asking open questions, and shaping actions together, rather than imposing predetermined plans.
This session reinforced that my advocacy is not just about creating change—it is about building a covenant of trust and respect with the communities I serve. Listening, in this context, becomes a powerful act of transformation.
Marzia Hakimi (Afgahanistan)
NextGen Women Leaders Fellow 2025